Maybe we don’t need a sixth love language. Maybe we just need to recognize the one that makes all the others possible: safety.

This essay offers a sincere and specific thank-you to administrative professionals in mental health care. Grounded in truth, it acknowledges the emotional, logistical, and often invisible labor that makes care possible. It affirms their role not as background support, but as essential contributors to every part of the healing process — and expresses gratitude not just for what they do, but for how consistently and quietly they do it.

This is not a healing story. This is the moment the lie stops working. A clear, uncompromising essay on Nigredo, collapse, and the refusal to perform wholeness.