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The Courage of Starting Over
The truth about starting over is rarely spoken. It hides behind language like “fresh starts” and “new beginnings.” These phrases are...

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
May 263 min read
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Mental Health: A Different Journey for Everyone
A Different Journey for Everyone. Healing doesn’t have a universal image. For some, it’s a quiet walk. For others, it’s a therapy session.

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
May 194 min read
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How Stories Help Kids Understand and Navigate Emotions
Understanding and managing emotions can be complex, especially for kids. One effective tool that helps children navigate their feelings...

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
May 174 min read
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🧠 Therapy Is Not Just for a Crisis: It Is for Living Better
Therapy isn’t just something to seek in moments of crisis. This post explores how it can be a tool for growth, clarity, and emotional resilience — before things fall apart.

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
May 113 min read
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The Burnt Toast Theory
The Burnt Toast Theory is not about breakfast. It is about boundaries, self-worth, and the quiet ways we learn to accept less than we deserve. This essay explores how to recognize those patterns — and how to change them.
Bode Akinbobola, Ph.D.
May 114 min read
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The Limits of Labels: Diagnosis Is Not Destiny
A critique of how psychiatric diagnosis can shape identity—and how clinicians and patients can reclaim narrative and context in mental health care.

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
May 54 min read
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Turn Awareness into Action: Making Mental Health Welcoming
The theme for Mental Health Awareness Month 2025 is "Turn Awareness into Action."

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
May 23 min read
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A Classroom for the Heart: Mental Health and Depression Awareness Month
"Your mental health matters!" May is not just another month. It is a time to pause, reflect, and engage with the reality that mental...

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
May 15 min read
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The Role of Stigma in Mental Health
The Role of Stigma in Mental Health
By Dr. Bode Akinbobola
Stigma is a demeaning attribute that can profoundly influence whether individuals seek treatment for mental health concerns. It contributes to public stigma, prejudice, and discrimination against those with substance use or mental health disorders causing harm in numerous ways. Stigma denies individuals rightful opportunities and often deters them from accessing the mental health services they need.
Bode Akinbobola, Ph.D.
May 14 min read
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Embracing Micro Practices: The Power of "Feet on the Ground" in Mental Health Support
As Mental Health Awareness Month encourages us to focus on psychological well-being, we must also recognize essential systemic solutions...

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
Apr 303 min read
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The Hidden Courage of Just Making It to Therapy
In clinical practice, "showing up" is not merely participation but a form of survival. Drawing from trauma-informed, existential, and relational clinical perspectives, the essay re-frames presence as both a coping strategy and a moral act. It argues that misrecognizing this labor distorts the therapeutic alliance and enacts subtle ethical failures.

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
Apr 294 min read
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Why Managing Emotions Isn’t the Same as Healing Them
We live in a culture that celebrates emotional intelligence—our ability to regulate, manage, and suppress emotions when necessary. Managing feelings is not the same as understanding them. True healing begins not with control but literacy: the courage to name, explore, and live through what we feel.
In this essay, I explore why emotional literacy is not just helpful—it is essential for authentic emotional health.

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
Apr 283 min read
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Understanding Abuse and Its Impact on Mental Health
This guide explains what abuse is, how it affects mental health, and the many forms it can take—both obvious and subtle. It includes...

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
Apr 254 min read
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Longing for the Self: A Clinician’s Reflection on Emotional Homesickness
Emotional homesickness is not a longing for a place, but for a version of the self that once felt safe, connected, and whole. This reflection draws on clinical experience and psychological theory to explore how trauma, stress, and identity shifts can fracture our internal sense of belonging. Rather than viewing this longing as pathology, it’s reframed as a meaningful signal—a guide back to inner coherence and healing.

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
Apr 225 min read
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When Food Becomes Fear: The Mental Health Impact of Being “Allergic to Everything”
Severe food allergies are more than a dietary issue—they are a psychological, social, and existential challenge. This essay explores what happens when eating becomes dangerous, and how we might redefine nourishment in a body that resists it.

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
Apr 224 min read
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Fractured Signals: The Role of S.A.D. in Dysregulating the Nervous System and Erasing the Language of Emotion”
Stress, anxiety, and depression—collectively abbreviated as S.A.D.—are not ephemeral emotional disruptions, but enduring states that etch...

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
Apr 212 min read
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Why Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone Changes Everything
Imagine a Life Without Risk.
Everything controlled. Everything familiar. At first, it sounds ideal—safe, simple, serene. But here lies the truth: safety is not the same as fulfillment. Growth does not happen inside the comfort zone. It happens in the messy, uncertain middle—where fear meets action.
Taking risks is not just about leaping without looking. It is about choosing to evolve. It is a conscious step into discomfort, where self-trust is tested, resilience is born, and
Natasha Charles McQueen
May 25, 20243 min read
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Anchored in the Storm: Using Reflection to Navigate What’s Next”
Introduction Not long ago, I found myself spinning in a storm of stress and uncertainty—my mind racing with what-ifs, my heart carrying a...
Natasha Charles McQueen
May 25, 20245 min read
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7 Coping Strategies for Life’s Stormy Seasons
Introduction We all face moments when life feels like too much—when stress builds, emotions overflow, and even the simplest tasks feel...

Natasha Charles McQueen, Ph.D.
May 19, 20244 min read
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